I see DH bundling a torn up plant into the compost bag.
Me: is that the honeysuckle from the trellis?
Him: yes.
Me: I've been growing that up the trellis.
Him: oh, well. It's just a plant.
Me: (feeling cross that he's being so dismissive) I wish you'd asked me first.
Him: whatever.
Me: (annoyed) you know, you can sometimes be destructive in the garden
Him: (angry, shouty ) piss off. I'm working hard out there.
I am feeling upset and angry that he:
A) dismissed my being upset he'd pulled out the plant
B) swore at me (he does this when he gets cross)
C) didn't apologise for pulling up the plant
D) made it all about him feeling sorry for himself that he's 'working hard'
I told him how upset and angry I felt then he called me a nag.
AIBU to feel this is unreasonable behaviour? I feel so hurt and disrespected when he swears at me.
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Sparebutton · 22/05/2016 14:49
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