Am I being a bitch

[pissedoff71]

I need some perspective .
Oh is childish and irresponsible . Have talked and talked . He always promises to change yet doesn't . Had lovely afternoon planned ( kids with grandma ) he's ruined it with once again selfish actions .
Iv told him I'm sick of him and unless he grows up its over .
Anyway Iv lost my patience I'm going shopping and then to drink wine if no friends can join me . Iv not bothered telling him where I am as I want him to learn what it's like when your partner is
Selfish
Immature
Childish
Thoughtless and self centred

[Twitterqueen]

Difficult to judge with so little information.
However, since you are clearly upset, you have talked about it, he promises to change and doesn't....

No of course you are NBU

[TheUnsullied]

What's he actually done then?

[icouldabeenacontender]

Depends on what he did?

[TheNaze73]

What did he do? Not enough info here

[Pinkheart5915]

You sound upset, but I can't tell you if your being unreasonable as you don't say what your oh has done.

[pissedoff71]

Not a lot really just let me down again . It's the constant not changing despite promising . Straw that broke camels back and all . I'm maybe been childish but I feel like it

[TheUnsullied]

Nobody can really tell you if you're being a bitch with no details. Hope you feel better though

[PaulAnkaTheDog]

No one can judge if you don't tell us what he did.

[pissedoff71]

He doesn't do anything
Doesn't pay bills that's he's meant to
Forgets anything and everything and leaves everything to me . Iv got sick of the promises he will grow up . I'm not sure what's wrong with me

[OhForCodsHake]

There's nothing wrong with you, believe me.

[pissedoff71]

It's nothing major just a constant stream of let downs today quite insignificant - I just wonder how u can let people down when you promise them to change so much
This is nothing don't know why I'm upset he forgot to ask for the day off when my dad died for his funeral .
Just the last straw . Sat having wine watching the world go bye . Feel a total bitch seeing the anxious where are you texts but even worse feel pleased he's suffering - so there I'm a bitch . But it's better than murdering him which I may of done if I had stayed home

[crankyblob]

But what do you consider a let down?

There is a big difference between him knowing what you want and ignoring you and you expecting him to know and being annoyed that he doesn't mind read! The second is BU obviously!

Having said even with the second, some people work at different speeds and it can be frustrating to be with someone if they don't match your get up and go for stuff!

[crankyblob]

You shouldn't have to feel like his mum though!

[2ManySweets]

Keep ignoring the texts and enjoy the sunshine and wine. He'll survive x

[TheGoodEnoughWife]

I think you are being unreasonable expecting him to change tbh.

I assume he has always been like this? And I get he has said he will change but realistically although people do change sometimes and over time I think expecting such major change is unlikely.

Therefore I think you need to accept this is how he is and decide whether you want to live this way.

[AliceScarlett]

Ltb

[ollieplimsoles]

Does he let his kids down?