ds2 is 6, and been doing his SATS, fro 3 weeks we assumed his breathing difficulties was his asthma/allergies playing up, until a few days ago we got told it was childhood anxiety.
I spoke to the school after discussing it with ds consultant, and his teacher said "Did the doctor say this in front of ds!, I said yes as he was being examined, however ds would not understand the adult words being spoken about and it was said in a friendly manner, doctor had a chat with ds and said if he felt his breathing funny he had to go to his parents and get a big cuddle as that's what us parents do best, dh was over the moon he got 2 stickers instead of one also.
She then went onto assume that me and dh have spoken about this in front of ds, and said conversations like this should not be heard by ds2 [hmm[ in a really judgemental tone... and how irresponsible it was of us, with exacerbated tones, we haven't spoken about this to ds, currently he thinks its his asthma/allergies playing up, she also said as school he seems fine...
Seems fine = the school nurse had to give him his inhaler everyday this past week... also on Wednesday, when his granddad picked him up he had to rush him home and give him his inhalers as he thought ds was having an asthma attack....
Im just really that she assumed or actually told us what we can and cant speak about with to our son.
No help was really offered, just that after the SATS we will see if his breathing gets better...
I just feel as she over stepped the mark, who is a teacher to tell us what we can and cannot discuss in front of our child.
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AIBU?
AIBU to think ds teacher over stepped the mark here, or am I precious?
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MsJamieFraser · 20/05/2016 07:04
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