I feel I have always supported DP when he's , stressed, upset, hates his job (which is most of the time). Much more rarely, I look to him for a bit of support about stuff that -I should really be able to deal with on my own- upsets me. Recently my younger son aged 12 has been trying to get into a team for an activity that I think he's pretty good at, think basketball. He's just had a knock back and as his DM think he did pretty well in the trials.
I said I was upset for him but also a bit upset personally, cos it's brought a load of stuff up for me personally, where I felt never good enough. Anyway DH went mad and shouted that it wasn't about me and I should get a grip. I know in my head that it's true but shouldn't we sometimes just humour our partner to help them feel better about stuff, so they can become more rational at their own pace?
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To think DPs should humour you sometimes even when you're being unreasonable
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Jamesnortonhotunderthecollar · 20/05/2016 00:30
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