So today myself, DS (2.3) and DS's father went out for a quick meal (think cheap chain type restaurant).
We had just sat down and got DS in his highchair when a severely autistic boy (I would say late teens) approaches our table and is clearly enamoured with DS, smiling and waving his hands. He then goes to DS and strokes his hair, and then embraces him tightly and kisses the top of his head.
DS is like a deer in the headlights - he looks panicked and his bottom lip starts to go, so I smile and say 'Aww DS - you're getting a big cuddle! Good boy!'
Meanwhile this guy's mum is telling him to leave the little boy alone and let go, which he does, she says 'I'm really sorry' and I wave my hand and say 'it's fine'.
My question is this - did I react in the right way, considering my DS was clearly distressed with having a stranger hug him like that? DS father said to me 'Why did you tell her it was 'fine'?? DS was clearly not fine!'
I was more bothered with keeping my DS calm as the guy was hugging him so tight I don't think I could have wrestled him away even if I tried!
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Did I react in the wrong way?
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SpunBodgeSquarepants · 18/05/2016 22:25
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