There's a mum at school who has a problem with me. I've no idea what it is. She's quite a queen bee character whereas I'm more of a take me as you find me kinda girl.
There have been a few incidents now. Excluding the bitching behind my back, the first was when she hit me at a children's birthday party. I involved the police, filed a report etc. I asked that she wasn't arrested because I didn't want to antagonise her (we've got quite a few years with our children being in the same class). But, my report is serving as a record of the event. I informed school in case there were any repercussions with our children at school. The next incident was when she deliberately walked into me at school. Straight after she was shouting out at how I'd pushed her and gathering all her witnesses up (who strangely enough are all her friends). I didn't say anything to anyone about this. No one was hurt. Today we've had another one. I was walking a child into school and had my arm around her shoulders. The woman mentioned above was walking towards us, not looking where she was going and walked into the child I was with. My instinct was to protect the child so I pushed the woman's hands away. She was carrying keys so scratched me but I'm just pleased I did otherwise it would have been the child's face. I can't remember exactly what I said but it was something like "hey, be careful!" It was only at this point that I realised who it was. She again started gathering witnesses including someone who claimed to have seen everything but had her back to us. Another one of her friends! She then followed me out of the playground, screamed out that I'm a "fucking crazy bitch" along with sticking her fingers up at me. (This is all in front of children from school).
Anyhow, current situation is that I'm trying to convince the school to arrange a mediation meeting. They're understandably reluctant but if she's behaving like that on school property then I feel they have to intervene before someone gets really hurt.
So, AIBU for involving the school?
Nb I believe this morning was a genuine accident
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PlaygroundAngst · 18/05/2016 18:53
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