I had a bit of an odd experience this week. I went to meet my colleagues daughter as they are local and she wanted some childminding work with my daughter.
The girl is 17. I took my daughter to their house and knocked on the door. My colleague answered the door and greeted me in a friendly lovely way. She's really nice, down to earth woman, I really like her.
Then her daughter steps forward and we are introduced and shake hands. All fine. Then, her daughter then looks at her mum, throws her arms around her neck and gives her a long, clingy, hug. Erm. Okay. Then my friend's husband arrives and we are introduced. He seems nice. Daughter then throws her arms around his neck, more hugging and cuddling and embracing ensues. I have been there less than two minutes at this point.
We go into the kitchen and make small talk about the weather and her house for a bit as you do. And the daughter continues with the hugs and embraces at around 5-10 minute intervals. Doesn't pay that much attention to my daughter.
Now, I'm no expert, and I hardly came from a normal balanced amazing family, but is that much affection required by most 17 years old girls from her parents? In front of a total stranger? Who is potentially wanting her to be in charge of their child?
And mostly, WHY? Why would a 17 year old girl be doing that? I was there for about two hours and it reduced but didn't stop. She just hovered around her parents mostly and kept up some sort of physical contact.
I might add I will not be requiring her to look after my child I'm not sure she's... Mature enough? Grownup enough? Independent enough?!?
What's going on here do you think? Or is that totally normal and am I over reacting?
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To think this was strange behaviour from this 17 year old? Or maybe it's normal you tell me.
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Flamingo1980 · 16/05/2016 21:46
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