We live in a row of houses that backs on to lovely moorland and the best thing about my house is that our garden has a gate on to the moor. most of the other houses do too but one house doesn't.
There's one small private spot, on a bench, inside a sort of half shed, where no-one can see you I like to potter in the garden
The previous owner of the house-that-doesn't became a dear friend of ours over the years and after we'd known each other about 8 years I told her she shouldn't keep walking round to the end of the road to get on the moor but should just treat our garden as the route.
So, a very pleasant new set of neighbours have moved in and DH, in a fit of welcoming enthusiasm, apparently said "oh feel free to go through our garden" to this complete stranger.
Consequently, I am finding that the family (mum and two girls, mum with friend, au pair with girls) just routinely walk back and forth through my garden.
Yesterday I wanted to go and garden but saw them setting off (after spotting acomplete stranger - the mum's friend, having a good look round) so locked the back gate whilst I was in the garden so there wouldn't be too much of shock when the gate opened (I know it's not a shock shock but some people will understand).
The garden was somewhere I felt safe. Having a family go through it is too much. But what the heck do I do? Dh says he is sorry and will tell them it was a mistake but that will just make me sound like a bitch.
DH of course never uses the garden and has no idea what it is to potter quietly in your safe place.
To explain it, it's not like having someone coming through your bedroom, but it is like someone walking through your hall.
The neighbour is going to think I'm a right cow if I say anything isn't she? Shall I just start accidentally locking it?
what do I do?
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to wonder if it's too late to stop my neighbours walking through my garden
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whydidhesaythat · 16/05/2016 16:19
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