My ex has just told me he plans to take 3yo DS away in the summer. The plan is for them to go to Barcelona with ex's new partner and ex's 5 brothers.
I have no problem with ex, his partner or his family (in theory) and he is a really good dad and is heavily involved with DS - 50/50.
The reason I have concerns is that ex and his family are very much 'lads'. They drink a lot, like fighting and are involved in some questionable things, but have always kept DS well away from this. However, while on holiday I think it is going to be more difficult and tbh It is not really a child friendly holiday as they plan on sightseeing during the day and will probably be drinking at night.
DS doesn't know about it, but I know if he finds out he will want to go. Part of me thinks he will love it and I know they will fuss him but then part of me thinks it just isn't suitable.
I told ex I was not keen and he isn't happy about it. I have had his eldest brother message me as I type this asking 'to discuss it'
AIBU to not want DS to go?
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CaptainRodgers · 15/05/2016 22:45
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