Live in quiet cul de sac of 6 houses.
Get on well with 5 of the neighbours. Not in and out of each other's houses but wave 'hello' and brief chats outside now and then, and could rely on them in a crisis type relationship.
The other couple at top of close don't acknowledge anyone really. The woman will say 'hello' occasionally if her DH not present. They complained once that a small van was parked near their drive for 5 mins.... they have complained to other neighbour that their dog barked one night . When our neighbour opposite moved in years ago he politely asked if removal van could park outside their house briefly 'No' was the reply.
On the whole quite unapproachable.
Three eves ago our dd 5 was playing outside with Dp and her friend who lives in the corner. She put her little bike next to her friends dad's van on the ground This is sometimes used as a turning circle by grumpy neighbours at top of close, so they can reverse onto their drive.
The woman is known to be a bit erratic with her driving....
She pulled into close
3 adults were there chatting, pulled the children out the way and she proceeded to drive in front ways, squashed dd bike and then reversed onto her own drive.
Bike was in bits she apparently walked down and said she 'hadn't seen it' to one of the other neighbours watching like Dp didn't realise she had walked back down as he was trying to sort dd bike.
Dp said he hoped she might pop and apologise and offer to help with repair, although he said apology would have been enough.
She didn't do so, and Dp popped a really polite note with her two quotes for damage repair attached.
Her husband came around and basically said it's an accident and how dare you upset my wife and you can shove your quotes up your arse.
I didn't see any of the actual bike squashing, only neighbours and Dp and dd did.
Dp is on the 'it's the principle, it's our dd little bike'.
I felt more he should have just left it.
Was My DP BU for the quotes and note thing?
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Only1scoop · 15/05/2016 11:27
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