to be asked whether I have embraced the MILF factor

(21 Posts)
Foogy Wed 11-May-16 17:23:31

A man I was chatting to on online dating asked me this last night.
I quite liked him before!
What was he thinking?

silverpenny Wed 11-May-16 17:25:40

Is he from the inbetweeners or something? For an adult bloke to use term is vile

Foogy Wed 11-May-16 20:26:55

Me late 30's, him early 30's.

RosieandJim89 Wed 11-May-16 20:27:54

Urgh! I hate that term.

AnyFucker Wed 11-May-16 20:28:18

Are you still talking to him ?

Lovemusic33 Wed 11-May-16 20:32:47

I had this a few times whilst dabbling with online dating, I found it very cringeworthy.

Foogy Fri 13-May-16 13:08:54

No I haven't spoken to him again. But now I'm wondering if this is what other men think of me on there too? confused

StableButDeluded Fri 13-May-16 13:58:17

'Embraced the MILF factor'??
What does it mean? I know what a MILF is, but don't understand this...is it asking you if you think you are a MILF??
I dabble with OLD and I detest middle-aged men using the word MILF almost as much as I hate them calling me 'hun' or 'babe'. It's all so juvenile.

BestZebbie Fri 13-May-16 14:01:48

Message back "no, I'm not trying to pull my son's/daughter's friends, I'd prefer someone my own age" - I was under the impression that a MILF is an object of attraction to the generation below, as opposed to a yummy mummy who is more attractive to her peers.

LadyAntonella Fri 13-May-16 14:02:38

Yuck

Foogy Fri 13-May-16 18:41:11

But I'm 37, he's 33, not a massive age difference to me but maybe he saw me as an 'older woman'!!

Foogy Fri 13-May-16 18:42:44

Yes Stable I I'm not too sure the meaning of his question either!

RosaRosaRose Fri 13-May-16 19:48:54

Bin. Him.
Early 30's? Sounds like a fool.
Job done.

JustLostTheGame Fri 13-May-16 19:50:23

What does it mean? Was he asking if you sleep with younger men?

Crispbutty Fri 13-May-16 19:50:41

he sounds like hes 13 not 33!

JustLostTheGame Fri 13-May-16 19:50:44

Are you a mum?

RosaRosaRose Fri 13-May-16 19:52:42

And the other thing is, no, sure there are few men thinking that about you. Many are more adult.

Foogy Fri 13-May-16 20:04:41

Yes Just, I am a mum and I'd put this on my status as I kept getting guys telling me they were looking to settle down and have children! I don't want any more! But I feel really young, and had never thought that I would be thought of as a MILF shock, or that someone would think it's acceptable to say that to a woman during a normal conversation!

JustLostTheGame Fri 13-May-16 20:11:35

Well its a good way to strike him off your list.

Birdsgottafly Fri 13-May-16 20:16:34

Steer clear, he's asking if you are up for providing the 'Older Woman' experience.

You'll get all sorts of cranks, when you're OLD.

Foogy Fri 13-May-16 20:20:02

Yep, I've filtered him out! 'Older woman experience' grin

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