For the past 5 days ive had a constant 'texting war' with dds gran (dds dad) about contact. I dont talk to dds dad as it always turns into an argument and i want to avoid that if possible. Dds dad isnt very consistent with his visits and often goes months without seeing her, 5 days ago i asked his mum why he wasnt keen on seeing dd and her response was hes fed up with you because he has supervised visits (i have told him numerous times prove to me you can be here every week for 1-2 months, same day, time, place etc.. And i will trust him to have dd on his own) he often disappears for months so it goes back to the start all the time. Hes never had dd overnight as we haven't gotten that far as he has never gained my trust. Am i being unreasonable? I have said to them that if they cant agree with doing things slowly for dd then i cant see them ever having dd overnight or for a full day, they expect dd to be ok and are telling me to force her into going away from me (something thats never happened before especially overnight) they told me unless i agree with basically abandoning my daughter they will not be seeing her. I also said that was fine and i will not be changing my mind. Am i in the wrong? I feel terrible now as dd wont see her dad again because everyone is being stubborn
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MadamDeathstare ·
08/05/2016 17:38
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