Hey all, I'll try and be brief. Split with STBXH in September. I was working nights at the time and was willing to cut out my midweek nights but ex said he was happy to have DS1 so I could work. At the time I was 18 weeks pregnant, shocked, upset and worried about living on my own so I agreed.
It's now 7 months later and this arrangement is still in place. He expects to have DS2 for the same nights. The midweek nights have become a problem though. Ex doesn't collect DS1 until 6-6.30pm. At this time he will have normally had tea and be chilling out before bath and bed. But if he's going to his dads he is having tea late and going to bed late and the following day he is knackered! I've tried to talk to ex about it and he just dismisses me and gets annoyed. I want to cut out the midweek nights completely and I've offered for ex to visit the boys in the week if he wants.
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rockabillyruby82 · 08/05/2016 12:01
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