Tell me straight if I'm BU!
Ds is 16 has left school
From a very early age he's been a difficult child started off as constantly hyper into everything (different from his siblings) destructive cheeky rebellious, flew of the handle at the slightest thing, fighting at school and with siblings, never sat still always shouting out, I was always called into school because of his behaviour he's been suspended 3 times, was always on behaviour sheets!
I always cooperated with the school punished him at home!
Again from an early age I took him to health visitor and gp regarding his behaviour and they would always ask the same Qs does he sleep which he did! So they wouldn't help this has went on for years and years gp once said he's just a typical little boy! He certainly was not
School was no help either they called me at least 3 times a week to go in every time I went in at primary they used to say he was a lovable rogue (not what I wanted to hear I wanted to hear his behaviour wasn't normal and they would support me with gp)
At high school was worse he was branded the class clown couple of teachers were hard (I fully understand this and agreed with it) on him
But majority of teachers went all soft on him again saying he was this lovable little rogue (which really pissed me off at the time) how could he be a lovable rogue when he disrupted the class spoke back to teachers refused to do work, wouldn't do homework etc!
Again I took him back to docs but they said he was fine!
Fast forward a year or so he went to college they have discovered he's dyslexic and asked me to take him back to gp as they suspected adhd
Which I did and after a few months of attending cahms he's been diagnosed with adhd!
I feel awful that I've let him down so much along with gp and schools!
Sorry if this doesn't make sense but I've cried all the way through typing it
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AIBU?
AIBU to be peed off at gp school and myself
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tiredandiwannagotobed · 05/05/2016 21:45
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