My sister is pregnant and instead of being really happy, I am really worried...
Some background: My sister has long term, chronic mental health problems that have affected her since childhood. She is not able to work. She also has other illnesses that make her life difficult as well as problems with alcohol and eating. When she drinks she is abusive but she does go long periods when she is dry. She has an on/off relationship with a guy who also has mental health issues and who can only work intermittently. She is probably having the best period in her life now and has been quite well for the last six months but even now she still has many days when she can't leave the house. A year ago she was suicidal.
She is delighted about the pregnancy. I can see why she is happy but I feel that she hasn't considered how she will cope. I worry about how the post natal depression will affect her and I think this child will be a carer and that's not fair. I think she has only considered what she wants and not what life would be like for her child. I can't see how she would care for it on a daily basis. Most days she can't get up until midday and takes Valium that knocks her out each night. Who is going to feed and care for the baby? I am really worried. AIBU?
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ThomasCromwell · 04/05/2016 16:06
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