He said her kids would die

[Sandbrook]

If she didn't give him a BJ last night.
Friends husband. She asked what I thought, she's unsure what to think herself. When she questioned him, he laughed and said he was joking.
She's mulling over it now and that's why she rang me.
I told her I thought he was a prize dick. He's a nice man, so this is out of character in my opinion and not something he would use as emotional blackmail though. She agrees but ended conversation not feeling any better about it

[Goingtobeawesome]

OMG. I despair of some women.

[ArmySal]

Yeah that's not odd at all...

[EvansAndThePrince]

He obviously doesn't have kids if he thinks that an okay "joke".

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

OMG.I despair of some men!

[JonSnowsBeardClippings]

What?
He's more than a dick. He's a sexually abusive psychopath.

[ThoraGruntwhistle]

Hopefully there was absolutely no serious intent behind him saying it, but it really doesn't matter - what a revolting thing to say

[LilacSpunkMonkey]

He's not a nice man.

A nice man wouldn't say that even as a joke.

He's a prick.

[acasualobserver]

That's pretty low. Was he drunk?

[Sandbrook]

Sorry should have been clearer, they are both their kids.
And apparently his meaning was superstition rather than threat. Like that makes it better

[WonkoTheSane42]

So it was "give me a blowjob or I'll kill your kids," and she's not sure if that's okay or not? How much abuse has she already normalised to think that might be okay?

[ChubbyPolecat]

Wtaf

[HighDataUsage]

She should report him to the police on 101 for threatening her kids. Let's see if the shot finds it funny then, the nasty controlling bastard

[Pinkheart5915]

He was joking that is a weird sense of humour

[anorakgirl]

Fucks sake. And I bet she ended up giving him a blow job didn't she?

[Helmetbymidnight]

I'm in the 'he's a psychopath' camp.

[TheFuckersBitingMe]

I'd phone the police. Joke, drunk, high as a fucking kite on Fruit Shoot, there's no justifying or explaining that sort of nonsense. Police, get it logged, get shot of them and change the locks.

[AdrenalineFudge]

That's a despicable thing to say. Being drunk is not an excuse imho.

[expatinscotland]

'He's more than a dick. He's a sexually abusive psychopath.'

This ^^.

[Only1scoop]

What an absolute cunt he is.

[Only1scoop]

Please tell me she didn't oblige

[hobybabo]

Of course she would have done Only

Superstition?! Joke? No, sexual abuse.

[Sandbrook]

Buggering fuck.
This really is so odd. They have from what I've seen a great marriage and there's never been anything untoward that I've been privy to.

So it was "give me a blowjob or I'll kill your kids,"
No, that's what I asked. He said he meant it as in "did you know if you don't the kids will die" I'm joking kind of way.

[LaConnerie]

What a nasty little shit he is.

I would have fucking chopped it off.

[Sandbrook]

only1scoop
No she didn't. She left the room

[Shallishanti]

'from what I've seen a great marriage'....
like so many abusive relationships- everything looks OK from the outside
I bet he's really charming, kind, funny etc etc
maybe your friend is looking for some support and to hear 'actually no, that's not OK'- and then she may begin to realise there are other things that aren't OK either.