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He said her kids would die

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Sandbrook Mon 02-May-16 20:23:55

If she didn't give him a BJ last night.
Friends husband. She asked what I thought, she's unsure what to think herself. When she questioned him, he laughed and said he was joking.
She's mulling over it now and that's why she rang me.
I told her I thought he was a prize dick. He's a nice man, so this is out of character in my opinion and not something he would use as emotional blackmail though. She agrees but ended conversation not feeling any better about it

Goingtobeawesome Mon 02-May-16 20:26:11

OMG. I despair of some women.

ArmySal Mon 02-May-16 20:27:34

Yeah that's not odd at all... confused

EvansAndThePrince Mon 02-May-16 20:27:41

shock
He obviously doesn't have kids if he thinks that an okay "joke".

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Mon 02-May-16 20:28:02

OMG.I despair of some men!

JonSnowsBeardClippings Mon 02-May-16 20:28:44

What?
He's more than a dick. He's a sexually abusive psychopath.

ThoraGruntwhistle Mon 02-May-16 20:28:53

Hopefully there was absolutely no serious intent behind him saying it, but it really doesn't matter - what a revolting thing to say angry

LilacSpunkMonkey Mon 02-May-16 20:29:10

He's not a nice man.

A nice man wouldn't say that even as a joke.

He's a prick.

acasualobserver Mon 02-May-16 20:29:22

That's pretty low. Was he drunk?

Sandbrook Mon 02-May-16 20:29:27

Sorry should have been clearer, they are both their kids.
And apparently his meaning was superstition rather than threat. Like that makes it better

WonkoTheSane42 Mon 02-May-16 20:29:50

So it was "give me a blowjob or I'll kill your kids," and she's not sure if that's okay or not? How much abuse has she already normalised to think that might be okay?

ChubbyPolecat Mon 02-May-16 20:30:28

Wtaf

HighDataUsage Mon 02-May-16 20:30:29

She should report him to the police on 101 for threatening her kids. Let's see if the shot finds it funny then, the nasty controlling bastard

Pinkheart5915 Mon 02-May-16 20:30:40

He was joking shock that is a weird sense of humour

anorakgirl Mon 02-May-16 20:30:54

Fucks sake. And I bet she ended up giving him a blow job didn't she?

Helmetbymidnight Mon 02-May-16 20:31:44

I'm in the 'he's a psychopath' camp.

sad

TheFuckersBitingMe Mon 02-May-16 20:31:50

I'd phone the police. Joke, drunk, high as a fucking kite on Fruit Shoot, there's no justifying or explaining that sort of nonsense. Police, get it logged, get shot of them and change the locks.

AdrenalineFudge Mon 02-May-16 20:31:55

That's a despicable thing to say. Being drunk is not an excuse imho.

expatinscotland Mon 02-May-16 20:32:22

'He's more than a dick. He's a sexually abusive psychopath.'

This ^^.

Only1scoop Mon 02-May-16 20:33:04

What an absolute cunt he is.

Only1scoop Mon 02-May-16 20:33:32

Please tell me she didn't oblige

hobybabo Mon 02-May-16 20:34:56

Of course she would have done Only sad

Superstition?! Joke? No, sexual abuse.

Sandbrook Mon 02-May-16 20:38:42

Buggering fuck.
This really is so odd. They have from what I've seen a great marriage and there's never been anything untoward that I've been privy to.

So it was "give me a blowjob or I'll kill your kids,"
No, that's what I asked. He said he meant it as in "did you know if you don't the kids will die" I'm joking kind of way.

LaConnerie Mon 02-May-16 20:40:14

What a nasty little shit he is.

I would have fucking chopped it off.

Sandbrook Mon 02-May-16 20:40:19

only1scoop
No she didn't. She left the room

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