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To feel like something is wrong with me? (sex related)

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magicwandlover Sun 01-May-16 23:47:05

The first time I ever had a proper, mind-blowing orgasm was when I got a Magic Wand vibrator. I've enjoyed sex, I have a dedicated and thoughtful dh, but didnt understand what I was missing out on. I feel jilted, somehow? Like there was a part of me that I didn't even know existed for a very long time. I'm also still annoyed that I need it at all, and want to reach that feeling without the less-than-spontanious bit of getting things wired up as it were.

Maybe I'm over thinking this? Or maybe I am the only one who needs extra help to make sex as enjoyable as possible?!

TheDuchessOfArbroathsHat Sun 01-May-16 23:49:41

There is a sex topic you know confused

BillSykesDog Sun 01-May-16 23:51:22

Ah. A marketing post.

TheDuchessOfArbroathsHat Sun 01-May-16 23:52:26

A not very clever one at that!

MiddleClassProblem Sun 01-May-16 23:54:25

I think you'll find this is quite common. Best thing to do is, if you feel confident enough, get DH to use it on you or as part of the forplay. Just introduce it as I found something that I really like can we try it together for fun. Try not to make it sound like he isn't doing what you need as it can be a bit hard to hear.

Is the stimulation you enjoy is external, there are vibrating rings he could wear that just add to regular sex if that makes sense

MiddleClassProblem Sun 01-May-16 23:54:49

Oh lol

AriaTloak Sun 01-May-16 23:56:43

Marketing post!

I've actually noticed a few marketing posts for the Babyliss Big Hair... Right weird posts as well.

Sheezus Mon 02-May-16 00:00:26

I've a magic wand too.
They are two fingers.

I can show them to you too!!!
(Flashes V's)

SilverBirchWithout Mon 02-May-16 00:34:18

<<marking my place for deletion message>>

NotQuiteJustYet Mon 02-May-16 00:43:21

Ooooh, are the deletion messages for marketing posts usually good? I've not seen one yet!

place well and truly marked

VioletVaccine Mon 02-May-16 00:43:52

I know how you feel OP.

Except my problem was never finding time for sex because of all the housework, draining me of energy with the elbow grease I needed to shift those stubborn stains.

Luckily, since I discovered Dettol All-New Kitchen and Bathroom cleaner, my housework is done in no time.
It saved my Marriage

ErNope Mon 02-May-16 00:46:45

Violet grin grin

NotQuiteJustYet Mon 02-May-16 00:49:28

Violet I just woke DH up trying to hold in a snigger at your reply grin

NotQuiteSoOnEdge Mon 02-May-16 00:50:10

Oh dear!

SmallLegsOrSmallEggs Mon 02-May-16 00:51:03


Aprille Mon 02-May-16 00:58:03

Oh this will be good...

KayTee87 Mon 02-May-16 01:01:13

Just passing through... Really should be attempting to sleep instead

DailyFailFuckwits Mon 02-May-16 01:02:26

Joining in, so i can get my first ever deletion message.

Worcswoman Mon 02-May-16 01:02:42

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Toofewshoes Mon 02-May-16 01:03:18


BillSykesDog Mon 02-May-16 01:03:31

Doesn't Sooty have a Magic Wand? Dirty little fucker, someone call Operation Yewtree.

LegoCaltrops Mon 02-May-16 01:14:24


DontBeALemmingApplePieIsNicer Mon 02-May-16 01:25:31

Me and DH decided to spice things up tonight with a little role-reversal...he dealt with the kids and I sat on my ass on the sofa moaning about the car! Does that count! 😁😁😁

iwantavuvezela Mon 02-May-16 01:30:36


WankStainWasher Mon 02-May-16 01:34:20

I received a Magic Wand from my Secret Santa at work. Best gift ever. I take it with me everywhere. It was a life saver when I was stuck in a traffic jam for an hour and I needed something to take my mind off Chris Evans prattling on about cars or some such nonsense...

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