i have not spoken to bf about this yet. just wanted to know what people think before i do.
not this weekend but next i will be 38 weeks pregnant. baby is likely to be early and a fast birth. bf daughter who is in mid 20s has said can i borrow dad on that weekend. as she needs to get a brides maids fitting. which is a 90 min drive away from me. if i do go into labour then its not very likely he will get back in time. he missed out on our last babys birth because we were not together. and i think he should make the effort to be here for me and the baby when hes being born. but on the other hand i don't want to be the reason hes might be torn between me and his daughter.
she does drive herself but there is an issue with her brakes but she does not have the money to sort them. i said i could lend her the money. she said she dont know how much as she needs to take the car to the garage. and also im thinking if she cant use car why cant she just get the train. but as i said im not sure if im being selfish or not.... what do you think? also i have not spoken to bf yet. so just wondering what people think for now.
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