Basically I fell out with all of my exP family for a myriad of reasons and so I have very very limited contact with them now eg wishing their children happy birthday, etc
DC still have some contact with them through exP.
ExP sis that I never really got on with because she likes to throw lots of passive aggressive comments for example
ExP sis: "I don't whether that foundation you have is good or not, on the one hand it looks natural as I can still see some of your uneven skin tone on the other hand why not get something with better coverage "
Me: (stunned into silence)
Now this same sis has asked me to come over to hers for a family birthday celebration and I don't want to go just because can't be bothered dealing with her and exP family ☺️☺️. This means DC will miss out on their cousins 9th birthday as exP can't take them.
ExP has told me that I am a selfish unforgiving bitch and I am not bothered.
I have had a think about it and yes I realise that I am being selfish in this instance and actually It has dawned on me that in general when people do / say stuff that hurts me I just cut them out - but this revelation doesn't bother me as I feel these would be people bringing what I perceive to be negativity or stress.
AIBU to be not bothered about
...DC missing cousins birthday because of me or should I take them?
....being unforgiving to people I feel have hurt me in the past.
By the way I am not rude to these people when I am around them, just very cool and don't add them to my social media, etc basically I freeze them out my life as much as I can - is this "normal"?
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SweetAngels · 29/04/2016 12:42
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