Hi just a bit of insight/opinions would be hugely appreciated.
I have an extremely good friend, and we ended up working in the same place. (Bit of background i was offered and applied for job first, other similar situations have happened where I've decided to do something and all of a sudden she does it too) It was great, however I decided to change jobs for work related reasons. Ive got a substantial pay rise and excellent prospects of career progression. Im very happy about it.Friend was very dismissive and critical tried to talk me out of it, wiped the floor with new company, said all kinds of things to put me off. even want so far as to suggest references might be an issue, etc etc
anyway, she has now told me she is applying to work in the exact same place as me. Now I really care about my friend and I have no problems working with her, but this type of thing is happening A LOT and I don't know how to tackle it, because it is starting to make me feel a bit uncomfortable. Not all work related it can be as simple as i buy something, a week later she does. To be clear i think the world of this person and would be horrified if i hurt her in any way, but i feel a bit suffocated.
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loobieloo32 · 23/04/2016 10:17
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