There are a few things that have been upsetting me but I don't want to list it all and be outed. It isn't only this.
I'm married with 2dc. Ds1 is 7 and is from a previous relationship so my dh is his stepdad. Although ds1 hasn't known his real dad and I've been with dh since he was a little baby, so dh is all he's ever known as his dad and we've been together a very long time.
In laws have always been nice enough and welcoming of ds.
Now we have ds2 (dhs). I assumed they'd be treated the same and dh and I discussed it at length before having him, and I was assured he thought of ds1 as his own, so did his family and so on.
Mil asked us to get her a framed photo for her birthday. I thought she wanted a photo of the kids so I did a collage frame, it's not huge, with a few photos of dh and the kids. All well.
Only soon afterwards I went to her house, she's taken a photo of ds2, had it printed off in big, framed it and shoved it in front of the frame I bought.
I'm quite hurt for ds1. I feel as though by doing that she's just completely reinforced that ds2 is her real grandchild.
I completely understand how she must feel about ds2, but it would have been so easy to put a photo of ds1 up, or one of the two of them. Even if she didn't want to she could have just so as not to leave ds1 out.
Ds1 loves them to bits, he noticed the photo straight away but he didn't say anything.
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Claykids · 20/04/2016 19:21
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