So, the old phrase "A daughter's a daughter all her life, a son's a son til he takes a wife" Bit old fashioned nowadays but lately I got to wondering whether m and my son will ever be as close and me and my mum were and still are even though I'm married with my own child.
I have seen with my own eyes my husband become more distanced from his family. We met in 2003, got together in 2004, I moved 150 miles away in 2005 to go to uni and he followed in 2006. This was his decision. He had always been quite close to his mum until then. Lived a 2-3 minute walk away, had his own keys to their house even though he had been moved out for years. Would pop u and see them etc etc.
Now in 2016, we've been together 12 years, married 3.5 years and have a 20 month old son. He rarely calls his Mum. We visit perhaps 4 times a year. Since 2005 his Mum has visited us maybe 5 times.
So, is there any truth to this old quote? Has anyone got experience of still being close to their grown up sons? And how do you maintain this without smothering?
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to wonder if a mother and son are ever as close as a mother and daughter?
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cjt110 · 20/04/2016 13:46
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