Vague thread title. Sorry.
At the weekend, it was brought to my attention by a person who I have never met, but know through MN, that she supected someone someone was referring to my son in a Facebook group.
Screenshots were sent, and indeed it WAS my son that was being referred to.
The post was made by his nursery owner/manager. The initial post wasn't an issue. She was asking for advice about him returning to nursery, as he has broken his leg and is in a full leg cast.
However, the replies with her follow up have left me utterly speechless. I spent over an hour shaking with anger and upset.
This is a direct quote... 'I know my initial thought she is a nightmare of a parent too checks everything we say with the LA and the little boy is showing signs of ADHD so I can see why she is desperate to get him back going to do everything that's been suggested on here then ok it all with LA before I speak to her tomorrow as I'm sure she will be on the phone to them straight after'.
So, my son has signs of ADHD (at 3) and no one thought to mention it to me, his parent? That is despite the fact there have been numerous occasions where they could do so. And the fact that they know I have concerns (but not ADHD!!) and my HV wanted their opinion in order to refer him. I've been led to believe he's absolutely fine.
Then there's the issue that she felt it was appropriate to share this in a Facebook group with 13,000 members, before she had shared it with me.
The fact that my son was identified through her post by two separate people, one of whom has never met my son.
I have gone straight to OFSTED and to the LADO to escalate this.
I'm so angry though. As she owns the nursery, it feels like there will be no come back for her.
Aibu to push this as far as I can take it? Or should I just let it go?
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TheDetective · 19/04/2016 12:15
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