DD (5) is in the kitchen throwing a tantrum. In order to get them out of Alton Towers yesterday I said they could choose a toy from the shop.
I felt conflicted about the bribe because I really don't want them to be spoiled and it seemed like they'd had enough treats for one weekend, but I was facing a four hour drive, not knowing what traffic would be like - it was after 4pm and we'd had a very full day - and just wanted to leave.
The toy she chose was a cuddly monkey with Velcro on its hands. She woke up at about 6am next to me (having come in in the middle of the night) and proceeded to stick and unstick the fucking Velcro until I was ready to burn the fucking thing it now doesn't work anymore. So she is very upset. I tried comforting her at first but now I'm just wondering whether they (she's a twin) are over-indulged. This sort of behaviour always seems to follow a glut of being given treats. Or maybe I'm being hard on her and she's just over-wrought I don't know.
Anyway I have thrown the monkey out. She doesn't know yet, she doesn't even know where it is, which just shows how attached she is to it. I'm just wondering if I'm going to do deep and lasting psychological damage or she will learn a valuable lesson regarding not complaining after lots of treats. I'm also thinking of poor Henwee and his rabbit ... my motivations are a bit different, though.
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Amnesiac · 19/04/2016 09:06
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