Both my Aunts think I shouldn't go - they know the family very well. It just happens they were neighbours and very close family friends. The person getting married is my friend and we have been friends ever since I can remember. I know her mother doesn't like me - she has always been competitive but I had decided to just go and support her.
She asked my daughter to be a bridesmaid. My Aunt thinks she is just using me - after all she didn't attend my daughter's Christening (she said she was broke). I haven't bought tickets yet - this wedding is in LA - we have 2 kids. She's never sent a congratulations card or anything when both my kids were born.
Am I wrong to feel like perhaps I shouldn't go after all. I have been hesitating to buy the tickets. We have been very close ever since we were little. I don't know anything about the wedding, even though I have tried to ask. All I have been told is what dress to buy for DD and shoes + their registry + a money deposit link etc. The last time we were going to talk over the phone, she had to go within seconds and texted back next day saying her fiancé's friends came over and she forgot to call back.
I am never on Facebook but this week I saw pictures of her hen-do all over Facebook. Not only was I not invited - I wasn't even told it was happening. Would I be unreasonable not to go? I feel like we would be going all out for someone who doesn't really bother with us. Or am I just over thinking it? What would you do?
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Olbersparadox · 19/04/2016 01:41
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