I know this is AIBU but please try to be a little gentle - I think this is the appropriate topic.
To give the backstory I have AS and i get hurt and fed up sometimes with people thinking I'm weird or getting frustrated with me and it's hard for me to understand why because I don't think like NT people. I have 3 children and two of them have SEN so I have very little time to myself.
So, I was talking to a guy on Tinder and were provisionally arranging to meet. I orignally suggested we have a Skype conversation and I asked him if we could do this at 7pm the next day because my children would be out and it would be quiet. After this he got really annoyed and told me I'm 'weird'. So my immediate response was ok, goodbye then.
I am the same with phone calls and meetings. I like things to be arranged in advance, whoever it's with. Is this unreasonable ? I'm not sure whether NT people do things on the spot more than me.
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AIBU?
To want to arrange to have a phone conversation / Skype at a specific time that suits me?
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lottielou7 · 14/04/2016 21:13
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