It's DT's birthday this coming Tuesday.
DH is working a half day on their actual birthday and the boys will be in pre school for half a day too.
They are having a party with a few of their friends , the following weekend (after their birthday).
My mum rang me this morning and said she wants to give the boys their gifts this Sunday and have a little party for them BEFORE their birthday .
I explained that Sunday is the only day DH has off over the weekend and the boys want to go to the farm for their birthday treat so we can't make that day.
I suggested we bring the boys over to hers after pre school on the day of their birthday so she can see them .
I suggested a time in the evening that I knew she would be in . It would mean us changing our existing plans and means the boys would be out later than usual but it's a one off and I thought she would like to see them on their actual birthday .
She said no and declared it's going to be too late so not to bother . I reassured her the boys would be fine and we are happy to do it .
She then suggested the day before their birthday - it's a Monday and DH is working all evening and the boys are at pre school all day so I said we couldn't make that day .
She got a bit stroppy and told me to just do what I want to do if I must come on the Tuesday. I explained again, I'm trying to help so she can see the boys on their actual birthday . I explained it's actually up to her and to decide what she wants to do - either see them on their birthday or the weekend of their party .
Mum said just to leave it and she will see the boys after their party the following weekend.
She's made me feel like I've upset her and I've no idea why
It's almost like she can't have what she wants so she doesn't want it at all
Did I do something wrong?
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DreamCloud99 · 13/04/2016 11:57
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