Sorry, an extension on my last issue where I posted about a senior colleague at work bullying me, shouting and screaming at me in front of students and junior colleagues, really showing me up and then continuing to harass me all shift about various bits of shit that she later admitted were non issues - when I got upset she shit herself and started nattering at me about whether I was going to report her or not (she has 3 bullying marks against her name already). She even called me at home to harass me about this. Yesterday was not an isolated incident, this woman has been making my life very difficult with the same kind of humiliating behaviour for months.
Anyway, today (after she'd got off the phone nattering me about whether I was going to report her or not!!) she fell and sprained her ankle at work. She'll be off work for a few weeks. I sent DH a cheeky text telling him what had happened and a little comment about karma being a bitch. Well his response was to tell me I was being nasty, I was being insensitive and a bully(!!!!!!) and I'm out of order. I reminded him that I finished yesterday's shift at work crying, laid awake most of the night crying and seriously considering trying to get signed off on stress after yesterday's shift. His response was "oh it was only words what she said, no need to wish the poor woman harm" !!!
AIBU to think he's being an absolute dick?? If she's been run over by a truck and I was celebrating then yeah, I could see his point but she's sprained her ankle and will be off work for a bit (thus I'll have some peace at work!!). Can't believe he's more concerned about her than his very soon to be wife who genuinely thought she was on the edge of a breakdown last night!
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To be fuming at DH's concern for the woman who is making my life a misery??
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SandDancerSkye · 12/04/2016 20:45
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