Long story short! Me and exdp split up in December. I ended it due to him lying about looking for a Job and never doing anything around the house yet when called on it made it into my issue. I was working sometimes 70 hrs a week as well as looking after the dcs and keeping the house etc. Anyway I've since found out that since we split up exdp has told everyone HE left me because I was lazy, never spent time with dcs never cleaned, put family.before job etc him and family are consistently now posting stuff about cheating in a relationship and I get the feeling this is what he told ppl he left me for . Whenever anyone has asked I have always told them that we split due to a mutual decision as I didn't want to cause drama but would I be unreasonable to start telling ppl the real reason. I have full proof of all his lies about looking for work as well as messages off him telling me he doesn't want me to end it and to be honest its pissing me off that he is telling people a load of shit and making me out to be the bad one
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