DS is 15 weeks old, and I'm planning on taking a full year of mat leave. So I actually do have a fair bit of time to consider this and don't have to make any immediate decisions.
However, my whole family - DM, DGM, aunties, uncles - keep lecturing me about how I surely won't be able to bear to go back to work, and how could I consider leaving him, and the thought of him going to a nursery makes them feel quite tearful...on and on and on, and it's getting on my nerves!
None of them live close enough to offer childcare help (I wouldn't expect them to, but since they all seem so invested you'd think they might) but they just won't let it drop. You'd think nurseries were little gulags, the way they go on!
Not much I can say that won't cause more trouble than it's worth, my plan is actually to request some form of part time arrangement, but I need to rant about this. DH is supportive but doesn't really get it, as amazingly, nobody seems to expect him to chuck a whole career away
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Spudlet · 11/04/2016 08:14
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