First of all, I need to explain my fiancé is definitely non-abusive, very loving, kind, all in all a decent man.
However, things are difficult. I've always been a teacher and I don't know if like a lot of non-teachers he has a slightly skewed view as to the realities of it or if perhaps I make it look easier than it is.
Anyway, things just haven't been going well in teaching and I've decided it's time to go. I have not (and would never) 'just' decide this but at the same time I was so depressed and unhappy. Even now after 2 weeks away it's sort of impeded through the whole holiday.
He doesn't get it. He thinks I want him to get angry with the government / headteacher / senior management, to shout 'what a bunch of bastards' (which I HATE) and he thinks praising my teaching helps when it doesn't as he's never seen me teach.
Fundamentally what he wants is for me to carry on teaching and preferably continue to get promoted.
How do you compromise?
How do you make decisions that benefit you but may detriment you as a couple?
I love him and I know he loves me but the communication is dreadful just now
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To feel as if I need some support rather than anger and frustration
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enchantedfairytale · 10/04/2016 11:22
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