A few years ago, a family member found a very young kitten by their house. Family member took the kitten in, and they developed a very strong bond, cat was well loved/looked after.
Fast forward a few years, cat struggles to urinate and is urinating blood. Family member has financial difficulties and between jobs, also doesn't drive and couldn't afford to take it to the vet.
2 weeks later, cat can't urinate at all, won't eat, is delirious and vomiting, cries when moving/crawling along the floor. Family member tries to get someone to take him to the vet, the next day.
At the vet, the cat is found to have a urinary blockage which is fatal within 48 hours if not surgically treated. Family member takes cat home, and asks around for money to pay for the surgery. I donated what I could afford, and some very kind person donated over £1000 and the target was reached.
Cat was taken to the vet again on the day, he was in a VERY bad state and I had a horrible feeling this poor cat was too far gone.
Anyway, the vet performed the surgery, and the poor cat died. Family member was devastated.
I was very upset/angry that he waited so long to get help for the poor cat, and as a result the cat suffered a long and painful death . Family member is very upset so obviously I'd never say anything.
However, the cat (unneutured male) was fed only dry food, which is well known for causing these fatal blockages in neutured male cats, as they aren't able to drink enough water, so they get their water from their food.
He has another cat, and I'm concerned that he might not be aware of the danger of dry food, and wanted to tell him how wet food is much better and could prevent this happening.
WIBU to put it in a really nice way or is it inappropriate? I just don't want his other cat to suffer but I don't want to offend this person.
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FlowersAndShit · 09/04/2016 09:34
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