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To wonder when we stopped reciting our number when answering the phone

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bearbehind · 05/04/2016 12:53

Not sure why this popped into my head but it occurred to me that when I was growing up in the 80's everyone used to pick up the phone and say their number.

I can still remember some friend numbers 30 years later as I can hear their Mum's answering the phone but I couldn't tell you my husbands mobile number now.

When did everyone stop doing this? Were we all subliminally conditioned to stop on the same day?

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PaulAnkaTheDog · 05/04/2016 12:59

I still stay the last four digits of mine Blush and I was only alive for two years of the 80s. I didn't realise how uncommon it was to do it until I started working in a call centre.

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BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 05/04/2016 12:59

I remember people always answering the phone with their number as a child! Both my Grandmothers still do it now, not the full number but the area & the last 3 digits so 'Solihull 123'.

I'm not really sure when it stopped being a thing. Prehaps it's when mobiles became more commonplace so it was more likely that someone would have those final 3 numbers?

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HopIt · 05/04/2016 13:00

When the call centres started and BT was privatised

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PresidentCJCregg · 05/04/2016 13:01

The only place I ever saw that happen was on TV!

Why did people do it?

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Junosmum · 05/04/2016 13:01

One of my grand still does it, but yes it is strange how everyone stopped. I suspect it was a mix of tv characters not doing it and the influx of mobile phones.

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icklekid · 05/04/2016 13:03

I used to do this think it changed when phones got displays so you know who is calling (landlines as well as mobiles) not thought about that for years!

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bearbehind · 05/04/2016 13:04

I think you're right juno, no one ever did it when answering a mobile so I guess they just stopped doing it on the house phone too.

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Twixthecat · 05/04/2016 13:04

And realising that most people knew what number they'd called as they'd just dialled it....

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HopIt · 05/04/2016 13:05

I think people did it as you'd often get crossed lines/ wrong numbers.

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LauraChant · 05/04/2016 13:05

I used to say "ThreeRivers1235Lauraspeakingwho'sspeakingplease?" in a breathless and incomprehensible tone (name and number obv changed).

Now I say "Hello, Laura speaking" using my posh phone upspeak on my landline, and "hello X" (caller ID permitting) on my mobile.

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ArmfulOfRoses · 05/04/2016 13:05

My aunt still does it, but only the last 4 numbers.
I can remember when they added 2 numbers to the front, and then the 1 in the area code.

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cozietoesie · 05/04/2016 13:06

I suspect it coincided with the decrease in 'wrong numbers'. Nowadays, if someone phones, it's much more likely that they meant to get you.

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cozietoesie · 05/04/2016 13:06

X post. Smile

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bearbehind · 05/04/2016 13:07

It really was an odd thing to do when you think about it!

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MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 05/04/2016 13:07


We (as a family) stopped when a psycho ex kept doing those silent phone calls at 2am.
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wanderings · 05/04/2016 13:08

I suppose it was to give the caller feedback that they dialled the right number. But as nowadays it's rarer to actually dial the number: you often use a speed dial, or many modern phones display the number as you dial.

I remember hearing the advice in the 90's that saying the number is a bad idea in case pranksters dial randomly; if you say the number it's easier for them to keep calling back.

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BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 05/04/2016 13:14

Milk Wink

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MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 05/04/2016 13:16
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Germgirl · 05/04/2016 13:17

My dad still does it. Just the last 3 numbers. DH cracks up every time he hears my dads pseudo-posh 'double four two?'

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Ragwort · 05/04/2016 13:20

I still do this, didn't realise it was the wrong thing to do Blush.

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Woodhill · 05/04/2016 13:23

Yes dh discoraged me from giving out our number to discourage cold callers and we were always ex directory.

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CMOTDibbler · 05/04/2016 13:25

MIL does it. They have caller display, and the other day we were there, phone rang and she said 'oh, that'll be BIL2' and then still recited the number

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BillSykesDog · 05/04/2016 13:28

It was when number display started. If people had simply misdialled they wouldn't have anything to tell them visually but would know when you recited the number. These days you'd see it on the display and abort without dialling so no need for it. So about mid to late 80s when number display became common.

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Flossiesmummy · 05/04/2016 13:29

My father worked for one of the major banks his entire working life and despite the fact that he's been retired a good five years I still have to say the name of the bank after someone says his full name. That's how he used to answer his phone.

Eg. Thomas Smithson, Lloyds TSB

*name and place of work changed

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PresidentCJCregg · 05/04/2016 13:33

How does it encourage cold callers to tell them your number if they're already phoned you?

Am I thick? Blush

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