I was over a family members house today and my cousin was boasting that she allows her 14 yo dd to drink when out with friends - she gave her a flagon (2 litres) of cider, a bottle of wine and 4 shots last night and was telling us how her dd came home sick/unable to walk etc and how she finds it really hilarious that she is hungover today.
AIBU to judge my cousin? I drank at 14, but it was one or two in the house with my parents or me and my friends clubbed together and split a bottle of cider, there's something about handing over that much drink and allowing a child to take it out that doesn't sit right with me, I think she's making it acceptable for her dd to drink that much. I worried for what could have happened to the dd too - anything could have happened, she could have collapsed (I would if I'd drank that much at that age!), been attacked/mugged, anything. It makes me think as well - if the girl is drinking that much on the streets at 14 what will she be doing when she's 17 or 18?
I don't know if I'm BU either, because at 14 having parents like my cousin would have been heaven for me, and I think maybe I'm looking at this too strictly, because most of my family seem fine with it and agree that it's hilarious (my own parents don't btw) so perhaps I'm just being uptight.
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madein1995 · 02/04/2016 21:52
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