I had a very close friend in my previous workplace. We were really close pals and confided in each other a lot - gripes about colleagues, she came to me with her man woes, she helped me through grief when my father died, she confided in me when she was off work with MH issues. Anyway, I changed jobs about a year ago, and we said that we would keep in touch, so I took her out for lunch a couple of times, invited her to my new office for coffee, etc. But then I noticed I was doing all the inviting, so decided to hold off.
A few months later she emailed to say that she had a new job in another town, and we would have to meet up before she went away. Next thing I knew she texted to say she'd already moved. She was back at Xmas and we arranged to meet, but she texted to cancel, and I know she has been back in town since but hasn't been in touch. I have sent Xmas and birthday cards, but received none myself.
AIBU to feel really hurt and sh*tty at being ditched like this?
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NuckyT · 02/04/2016 16:32
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