Going through toughest time of my life. Lost one parent. Now having to care for the other, as they're v ill. They don't get on with DH. I also have a LO. DH and I....our marriage tearing apart at the seams. I can never confide I'm unhappy or he screams at me. Always on the defensive. Always criticising me for how I react to things. Telling me I'm weak and lazy. Never takes me out anywhere or makes any effort. Never complements if I make an effort. 4 years it's been like this. Tried counselling. Waste of time as he didn't want to continue....he thinks nothing is wrong. I can't deal with being in an unhappy situation he denies. I can't be looking after everyone and him as well. Who is there for me? No one. No one. No one. We've not been on a date in months. Let alone watched a film together at home. When we get time alone there's just a wall of silence. He never arranges anythung special for us to do. Nothing. I just feel taken for granted but maybe I'm the problem. I'm so negative and unloveable it's no wonder he treats me the way he does and I always put my parent 1st....it should be him and our LO. They're always 2nd. But I can't help it. I'm the only one who can look after my parent....and they need me....and I'm scared I'm about to lose them too as they're very ill. I can't do this. I'm not strong enough.
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