My best friend is 50 this year. We usually have a girls party weekend abroad most years but this time everyone has dropped out. It just leaves me her and my sis. Sis can't afford it (recently seperated) but she has offered to pay (although sis feels she would have to pay it back although it will be at a tenner a week). She really doesnt want to do that. Thing is I really can't afford it either. Have just moved to a bigger house - no idea this was on the cards but had no choice. Am totally skint now - moving has wiped us out -and have not got a spare £600 (weekend plus spending money). We are struggling to pay for a family holiday which is already booked.
Other reasons are this friend parties all night and doesn't surface until tea time - not a problem in a crowd but when there is just a few of us will be a major problem.
The other is although I love Dsis dearly but when alcohol is in the mix we are highly likely to have a massive row - happened every holiday but again not a problem in a crowd.
She is having a day out in England and sis tried to talk her into making that a weekend instead. Loads more would go as not half as expensive. That would be much more affordable for me and sis. Friend wouldn't have any if it though.
Aibu for saying I can't afford it? I really can't but feel so bad. Friend pointed out she has always gone on hen do's, birthdays etc. Then again she hasn't got any kids (everyone else has), works full time and has no mortgage. She has always gone because she wants too not through a sense if duty. Am prepared to be flamed here - just wanted opinions. I am really torn.
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Friend's 50th birthday
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Tink06 · 28/03/2016 23:50
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