Always lived within 15 minutes of my mum until January when she retired and moved to Hastings.
She's 65 and I'm 35 with a 5 year old daughter and a 3 year old son.
I'm fine most of the time but whenever I go and see her ( usually once a fortnight ) I come away with a massive sense of guilt that she isn't getting any younger and I should be living closer and an ache in my heart as I really miss her, for the quick cups of tea or a shoulder to cry on if I needed one.
The 90 minute drive is so limiting especially now DD is at school and I don't know if I made the right call as we were going to move out with her when it happened, but we are in a housing association house and to do it we would have had to rent privately which just felt so insecure with children and schools etc - we had done it before kids and had to move lots with landlords selling and so on hence why we went for a shouting trust property and waited 8 years on the list before it happened.
Am I being irrational?
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to really miss living near my mum even though I'm 35?
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MigraineMartie · 26/03/2016 07:02
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