Closest friend getting married this year. We are a grp of 3 best mates I suppose. Friend 1 has discussed previously plans for young bridesmaids and all sorted.
Then I bump into friend 2 and she has been talking to friend 1 and now would like us both to be bridesmaids. Our kids are there at this conversation so don't really get a chance to discuss properly say I will talk to friend 1, next thing I know friend 1 texts me to say I have ordered the dresses and roll measure you up when I see you and they are £140 please could you pay for it.
I was gobsmacked! Replied (by txt as I was at work) that I wanted to talk to her about it and it was a lot of money for me. She replied pay when you can and you will look great.,,
But I just feel totally bamboozled, I was looking forward to choosing myself a nice outfit and it would've been cheaper than this. It's a lot of money for me. I'm not keen on the style of the dress and don't think it will fit me. I feel like it's all been decided but my mum and dh think I just have to accept it.
Aibu? What shall I do?
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To not really want to be a bridesmaid?
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bingisthebest · 24/03/2016 20:34
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