I married dh last year, I decided to keep my own name. My reasons were, I have a son who shares my name. I really like my name, it's me. I didn't want to be Mrs Hisname because to me that's his mum. I also feel as though the assumption that the woman will change her name is a bit of a feminist issue.
I don't want to be Mrs Myname either so I'm Ms Myname.
Dh was very upset about it despite always knowing how I felt. He thinks I'm mad but he's given up mentioning it.
Now I've found that the times I've had to give our names for anything it totally baffles people.
It's happened a couple of times where it's been quite important to acknowledge we're married. A mortgage application and me ringing the hospital when he ended up in a&e.
It's seems to completely confuse people, they say you're not married, I say that we are, so they ask are we Mr and Mrs Hisname, I say no were Mr Hisname and Ms Myname, we are married, I have kept my name.
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Toonoisy · 24/03/2016 10:45
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