I'm currently pregnant with first child. Recently the father and I have started to drift apart in a massive way. We never see each other and hardly ever talk. Things went downhill with us during the pregnancy to the point where I don't really feel very comfortable around him.
We aren't arguing anymore but we just aren't talking and I don't think I want him at the hospital with Me as it will make me feel really uncomfortable.
He of course wants to be in the room with me and I don't really want to make him miss the birth. If the tables were turned I would be devastated.
Should I just let him be my birthing partner or should I be selfish and have my mother with me ?
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lillypad2016 · 24/03/2016 00:12
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