Dh's parents are coming up to see us and the dc next weekend.
Mil phoned yesterday and told dh what time their flight was so that dh could pick them up. She also said that they would need to buy Easter eggs for the children so he would have to stop by a supermarket.
Ordinarily, this would not be a problem at all of course, but the day of their flight is ds2's fifth birthday. Dh has taken a day off work so that we can go out and then be home in the early evening for visitors. He does not normally get home until 7pm due to a long commute for a new job, and is really missing time with the kids. Running PIL to the airport and supermarket will take over two hours, their flight gets in at half six.
I wasn't happy but reasoned that PIL were just excited to see DC on his birthday and hadn't considered that we had plans or that dh wanted to spend time with ds2. Then dh told me that he was unsure they would even come to ours that night, as the last time they took this flight they went straight to their hotel as they were tired, and saw us the following day.
I want to book them a taxi and pay for it instead, and offer to run them from their hotel if they want to come up on Friday night. It is only 2 minutes by car and would mean dh wouldn't miss any time with ds2.
Dh thinks they will find this rude and it isn't worth the aggravation. He is cross about missing time with DS, but thinks that the fall out if they think we have been rude will be worse.
For background, dh and I have a distant relationship with pil, they live far away and were not close to dh growing up. We are very different people from each other in lots of ways. They are good grandparents and our three DC are their only grandchildren, dh is an only child.
So sorry for the length for something so trivial, aibu to get them a taxi instead?
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Coffeethrowtrampbitch · 21/03/2016 18:41
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