I really need some strong talking i only wish i could talk hard and strong to myself.
Lets go from the start (Literally). Had a dreadful childhood mother was abusive and cold completely non-feeling towards me. Used to use a piece of bamboo to hit me with or if i was lucky i could actually pick which implement i could get hit with, bamboo or belt!
Anyway fast forward met the man of my dreams at 20 married now for 30 years . Tried for 2 years to fall pregnant with my eldest child and when i did it was like all of my birthdays and all of my Christmas's had come at once. She is the calm and the light of my life. 3 years later i had another child and i fell pregnant straight away she is amazing too bubbly, funny and very pretty. So as i am sitting here typing i have tears in my eyes and i am so so sad.
My eldest daughter is moving 110 miles away so she can buy a house, which is impossible in London. I feel completely floored. Because i had such a shitty childhood i made thier's wonderful and i lived the childhood i never had. We had bike rides, swimming galas, picnic in front of the television hugs and always lots and lots of love. They moved away to uni and came back every couple of weeks, with the washing! I did it gladly and enjoyed them being around. I am very proud to say they have been through Uni and have good jobs. I am so sad that my eldest daughter who lives 5 miles down the road in a rented flat is now moving away i literally feel like my heart has been ripped out. I have just had a shower and cried in it so i did not cry in front of her. I know she knows i am upset but i just needed to cry in private. They are all i have ever wanted in my life and after the upbringing i had devoured every happy moment, and with the most amazing mother-in-law any one could have finally realised how a happy family life could be.
Help needed here please.
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AnnP1963 · 20/03/2016 16:17
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