My 4yo dd is good friends with my neighbour who lives a few doors away. They are a lovely couple. Great parents but just not my kinda people. They are forever asking us to come round for a few drinks or for us all to go out on a joint family outing. The truth is, i can't stand the dad! He is very loud, immature and excitable. He talks over everyone and seems incapable of mature, adult conversation. Mummy is lovely but we just don't really have any stimulating conversion.
Dp and i are quite a reserved, both WOHP and just enjoy low-key family time. i.e visting in laws, quiet restaurants etc.
Im sick and tired of saying, 'no. We're busy' or saying, its not our thing. But they just keep on and on! More him than her.
Even when he pops around, he never knows when to leave!
It's not as if we have never tried to hang out but when we have gone round, its just hours of awkward and inappropriate jokes.
I've run out of things to say and getting slowly irritated by him and we are neighbours, so no avoiding.
AIBU to be getting fed up? Any advice on how to deal with people that are overbearing??
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reservedlaydee · 20/03/2016 15:34
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