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So no period but not pregnant and stomach has a lump

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 17:40

As in my title I've not had a period for nearly 2 months been to the Dr I'm not pregnant. I've done at least one pregnancy test every other day.
Now I'm getting a stabbing pain in my side and across the pubice bone, the pains so bad I feel sick. The pains on and off for the past 4/5 days. Can't get an appointment untill Monday.
Oh also have of my stomach (my left side) is enlarged and growing
What could it be /what should I do?

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 17:41

Oh crap sorry didn't meant to post in aibu thought this was chat

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Witchend · 18/03/2016 17:52

I think if it's that painful you need to go to a&e. Could it be an ectopic pregnancy? Are you ttc?

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RedOnHerHedd · 18/03/2016 17:56

Agree, if the pain is that bad I would go to A&E.
I have endometriosis and have ended up in A&E a few times through pain so bad I couldn't even sit down. They're great and they really do take you seriously. Even if there's nothing they can do there and then, you will be pushed in the right direction.

Good luck.

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t1mum · 18/03/2016 18:01

Please get someone to take you to hospital urgently. It might be nothing but it could be an ectopic pregnancy or something else which needs investigating. Good luck.

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Imnotaslimjim · 18/03/2016 18:14

I agree, you need looking over. Do you have any pain in your back or shoulder? If so make sure you mention it.

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 18:21

My mother in law said I should go hospital but I don't want to waste anyone's time. Or NHS recourses Its most likely nothing plus the pain keeps coming and going.
Sad

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Libitina · 18/03/2016 18:24

Go to a&e immediately. As previous posters have said this may be an ectopic pregnancy. You need to get checked out. Do not leave it unti next week.

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Owllady · 18/03/2016 18:24

You are not wasting anyone's time, go to a&e (or a walk in centre if you have one) you need to be seen Flowers

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Tiredmumno1 · 18/03/2016 18:49

Agree with the others. Go get yourself checked out, you are not wasting anyone's time at all Thanks

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JarethTheGoblinKing · 18/03/2016 18:51

Yes, agree with the other posters. Go now as well, it's only going to get busier.

Any pain anywhere else?

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GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 18/03/2016 19:09

Sounds like could be ectopic. Sometimes don't make pregnancy test positive as hormone level too low. Please go to A&E.

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MaidOfStars · 18/03/2016 19:32

Go NOW.

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BeefLasagneForMyTea · 18/03/2016 19:36

Please go to A&E. It could be a number of things including ectopic pregnancy or a cyst. You need to go NOW.

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 19:37

At walk in feel sick with worry had to leave dd with mil first time I've left her and it's to get my noonoo checked. OH I'd at work can't get through to him Angry.

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NK346f2849X127d8bca260 · 18/03/2016 19:41

You have done the right thing, your dd will be fine.

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Damselindestress · 18/03/2016 19:42

Thinking of you. I hope everything is OK. You did absolutely the right thing in getting it checked out.

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Damselindestress · 18/03/2016 19:51

Your DD will be fine with your MIL. She needs her mum to be healthy and safe.

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Penguinepenguins · 18/03/2016 20:05

when I was having my MC my lovely GP insisted I was put in an ambulance from the GP surgery.

She kept saying this

You are not causing an issue
We have a golden rule, if we ever suspect for any reason it might be an ectopic we get you to A&E ASAP. Because it's very much better to be safe than sorry and this is what we are here to do, make sure you are ok.

Your in the very best place, I hope everything is ok I really do.

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TooGood2BeFalse · 18/03/2016 20:50

Hope all ok and you feel better quickly OPFlowers

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OohMavis · 18/03/2016 20:55

Hope you're ok, it sounds very concerning.

Hopefully you come back tomorrow and tell us all you needed was a reet big poo or something.

Flowers

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SalemSaberhagen · 18/03/2016 20:59

You've done the right thing OP. Fingers crossed for you.

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SirVixofVixHall · 18/03/2016 21:01

Hope you are ok op. Glad you are getting checked out.

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TattyDevine · 18/03/2016 21:03

Ectopic shoud show on a pregnancy test, but still good to get seen. Walk in better than A&E. Hope you get it sorted x

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 21:05

Hi all am home the Dr was shit.
Asked if I needed a poo Hmm on the examination table I was sobbing as he pressed my stomach and he just looked confused. Wouldn't give me any pain relief said to come back ( the walk in centre is also my gp) in a month if the pain continues and my period hasn't started. It's been 2 months of this and it's slowly getting worse. I asked if it could be an ectopic pregnancy and he replied it couldn't cus all my pregnancy tests have been negative.
I was sobbing die to pain and he asked why I seemed so stressed

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Chillyegg · 18/03/2016 21:06

Just relieved I'm home and dd hadn't woken

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