I did an online test recently that suggest I may be autistic.
I've always suffered with a social severe anxiety disorder (diagnosed) and sensory issues (undiagnosed). Nearing 30. Nothing diagnosed apart from social anxiety disorder and suggested I have sensory issues.
I;
Have trouble with routine/change
Can't judge depth/width/deal with flashing lights or over stimulation (eg. in the supermarket, with lots of people darting round with trolleys towards me or looking directly at me - I freeze and drop to the floor. Also, I become so self concious during a conversation with just one person, I think they may be able to read my thoughts, or at least be judging every part of my body language that I just freeze and act stupidly.
A year ago I found out my son was ASD with SPD. Other than that, it doesn't run in the family. I was told once by a (2nd year medical school dropout) that they thought I have the milder form of epilepsy (petit mal?) and absence seizures, which was causing this. I do tend to 'freeze' a lot - not sure how to describe it. I can't physically do or say anything, I just sit still for hours... eg. have not picked kids up from school twice as I've felt physically unable to stop staring at the wall, and haven't been able to move (though no fits) but my brain is always active, wanting to do something... I have a masters degree and am academic, but have never been able to stay in a job due to these feelings. I can't describe them really...
Someone suggested I have high functioning autism. But as I've always had great imagination and people reading skills, great imagination for make pretend games as a child... I don't think ASD is the case... I don't take things literally, I understand people's expressions... (as autistic people don't?) I don't think I'm lazy either. The doctor wont give me a clear answer - suggested depression, but I'm not depressed! My eye contact is bad. I can't look at people. But again, that's a potential social anxiety thing and not autism?
Sorry if this is hard to get across.... but has anyone else ever suffered with similar problems to these? I don't know what to do anyone. I seem to spend most of my life online and trying to get out of the real world.
I struggle to get close to people. I've been single for five years, but I have maybe 3/4 friends who I can be 'myself' with.
I don't feel normal. Am I?
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Autistic? Crazy? Or socially inept?
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EllieBee45 · 18/03/2016 00:35
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