I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby. The pregnancy wasn't planned and it was a very difficult decision for me as my boyfriend and I live in separate cities. I will be moving to where he is, giving up my job and life in London. My boyfriend hasn't acted wonderfully and his natural inclination isn't to consider other people's feelings. I thought we'd been getting past this and he's assured me he's committed etc. Then I find out he's booked a 4 week road trip in America with his mates when the baby is 10 weeks old. He's already got a ticket for Glastonbury which is when the baby will be possibly about 2 weeks old. I've asked him to consider not going as its a week away when the baby is so young plus then recovery time. He basically told me to get lost. I want him to understand that his baby is only 2 weeks old once and he can go to Glastonbury any time, and he's been the past 5 years. I want him to put me ahead of drugs and partying for once. Everyone I've spoken to said they thought he'd cancel it without being asked, or that any normal father would do. Am I being unreasonable to ask for this?
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Ouriana ·
17/03/2016 09:38
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