I'm so annoyed. BIL had arranged to take my twin 13-year-olds and my 8-year-old to an event tomorrow after school. He said he'd take them for something to eat then to the event (a one off thing at the local swimming pool). BIL is, to the children, the best thing since sliced bread so they've been excited for weeks. All of the children are excellent swimmers, but you have to be 9 to get in alone so 8yo needs an adult and DD2 has epilepsy and a couple of other issues that mean I wouldn't be happy with her going without an adult. It's a 20 minute drive away and was planned well over a month ago when the event was first advertised.
He has text me today to say he has a date so can't take them, but he'll make it up to them next week.
My DH (his brother) is working away on a long stint (12 weeks) so I'm home alone. I'm 7 1/2 months pregnant and also have a 2 1/2 year old so me taking them isn't possible as toddlers can't go (it's like an activity obstacle course thingy in the pool).
So I get the fun jobs of telling them they are not going and dealing with them tomorrow when lots of other kids they know are going and they can't.
I also have the fun of trying to decide if DD1 can go with her friends, which seems unfair on DD2. I could take the chance and let DD2 go as well, she is allowed to go to lots of places, but I don't like her in water without an adult, but that still leaves the issue of 8yo who simply can't go without an adult and I can't take him. 16yo DS who could have taken 8yo is on a school trip.
So tempted to tell him to phone and tell the kids so he can deal with the chorus' of "But eeeeveryonnnneeee is going..."
I know for a fact he wouldn't dream of cancelling a pre-arranged event with an adult so I think it's really quite rude of him to do it to the kids. Although at the same time he's not obliged to take them anywhere.
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AIBU to be really pissed off with my BIL?
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lalalalyra · 14/03/2016 18:11
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