When dd was born she had some problems turning her head. GP recommended that if we had the money we might find an osteopath can help and recommended someone from a well known London clinic and we took dd there twice a week, for 6 months at great expense to us. The osteopath told us that dd had some of the worst head turning problems she had ever seen, and being first time parents, that worried us a lot - hence shelling out all the money. After every session she would tell us it was essential she saw dd again in 3-4 days and if we said it was a bit soon and we couldn't afford it, she would make us feel guilty and say that we needed to prioritise dd's health. By the way she reacted to dd we totally lost perspective of the fact that the osteopathy was an "extra" and a luxury, rather than how she was presenting it - as an essential.
Over time dd's problems got better and we eventually extracted ourselves from this osteo by ignoring her emails and calls trying to get us to book more appointments.
Things went quiet for a bit then on dd's first birthday I got an email from the osteopath saying:
Happy birthday to dd! I am sure you are doing something wonderful for her! Please send me a picture if you can.
It is very important that I tell you we recommend a check up at 1 year old to make sure dd's problems don't come back.
I know you want to put dd first, so I'd suggest you become more pro-active than re-active. Looking at my records you have not come to the clinic since August which concerns me considering the way dd was when I last saw her.
Anyway I'll leave this with you.
Best...
Am I being PFB or over sensitive to be totally incensed at the way she is trying to extract more business from
Me but thinks I will buy her patronising "concern" and "happy birthday" to dd? And WIBU to reply telling her so? DD is now absolutely fine btw with no problems, so I have no idea what she is talking about "the way she was when I last saw her."
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Or PFB to be angry at this email from osteopath?
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Truebluetrueblur · 13/03/2016 21:33
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